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August 9, 2014 By Lifer 1 Comment

Why You Should Fake It ‘Til You Make It

Why You Should Fake It ‘Til You Make It

“You must be the person you have never had the courage to be. Gradually, you will discover that you are that person, but until you can see this clearly, you must pretend and invent.” ~ Paulo Coelho

Let’s Play Pretend

Close your eyes. Wait. Scratch that so you can keep reading. I want you to pretend that you finally made it big. Big can be anything.
Ok, now what is that big thing? It’s okay if you don’t know what you want. It’s normal – trust me. I remember in high school they always asked me to pick. “You have to pick something now!” What do you want to do for the rest of your life? Pick a major or vocation.
If you did happen to think of that big thing in your life that you could see yourself truly loving, good for you. Visualization is the first big step. If you can imagine what you want to do with your life, then there is a good chance you can achieve it.

“Visualize this thing you want. See it, feel it. believe in it. Make your mental blue print, and begin to build.” ~ Robert Collier

Now it’s time to start. Pick something that will get you pointed in the right direction. Now here comes the awesome advice: Start faking it. Everyone is doing it. Pretend like you know what you’re doing before you know how. It is only half “fake it until you make it”. The rest is about stretching and embracing freedom in a new way. It’s about giving yourself permission.
Stop sitting on the sidelines watching everyone else. Do you want to live you entire life like that? Who cares what people think? Why not be so interesting that people are curious and want to converse with you?

Learn On The Fly

For the next few days, weeks, and months, I want you to say yes to everything out of your comfort zone even if you don’t know anything about it. You may think this is crazy, but if you don’t know something – you can always learn on the fly. Think of all the information you have access to in this day in age. You can literally learn anything you want.
Don’t be afraid to make mistakes because you will learn from them. The best part is that you finally start to figure out how to “do” things. You won’t know until you truly try. It’s like moving to a new city or area. You have to go through the drudgery of learning the all the roads, street names and places. The best way to do this is to just start driving! Trust your instincts and dive right in. The water is only cold initially. Then, it starts to feel normal.
It’s all about having confidence in yourself. Think of someone who has already achieved what you want. They were just like you! Can you believe it?! They had to learn things. You can do the same.

It’s Not Easy

I’m not going to sugarcoat it. This isn’t going to be easy. No one likes to be uncomfortable, but learning to jump outside your comfort zone can help you grow leaps and bounds in your personal life. It sounds scary – because it is. There are no shortcuts. It takes hard work, but I promise it will be worth it. Eventually, you won’t be faking it.

“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.” ~ Neale Donald Walsch

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July 22, 2014 By Lifer Leave a Comment

10 Quotes To Get You Fired Up And Motivated!

Here are 10 quotes to get your fired up and motivated. Be sure to share some of the Tweetable quotes with others by using the Tweet This button below shorter quotes. Also, don’t forget to sign up for the Life Brink mailing list on the right for weekly updates. Let’s get motivated!

Most men die at 27, we just bury them at 72. ~ Mark Twain #Life via
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The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it. ~ Jordan Belfort

A smooth sea never made a skillful sailor. ~ English Proverb #Life via
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I always wondered why somebody doesn’t do something about that. Then I realized I was somebody. ~ Lily Tomlin

If you’re still looking for that one person who can change your life, take a look in the mirror. ~ Roman Price
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If you don’t build your dream, someone else will hire you to help them build theirs. ~ Dhirubhai Ambani

People aren’t against you, they’re just for themselves. #Life via
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And then there is the most dangerous risk of all ~ the risk of spending your life not doing what you want on the bet you can buy yourself the freedom to do it later. – Randy Komisar

Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. ~ Benjamin Franklin #Life via
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Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein. ~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.

I had to share this video for some motivation from Rocky Balboa.

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July 11, 2014 By Lifer Leave a Comment

How To Motivate Yourself To Do Your Best

I’m always looking for ways to do my best and improve myself in everything. It could be a job, project, start up, or even a daily task that you take on each day. We often want to work hard on a task but we lack or run out of motivation. Here’s the thing, motivation requires discipline. Below you’ll find some ways that can help motivate you to do your best.

Find Out What Energizes You

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No matter what the task is find the part about it that energizes you. Take for example a project that requires several different types of tasks to be completed. Why not start with the task that you enjoy the most or gives you the most energy? You can also think outside the box. Maybe music or podcasts energize you during a tough task. Find that one thing that makes you excited while doing the task. Sometimes even taking frequent breaks can re-energize us. It’s all about finding your greatest strengths.

Write Down Your Goals

Writing down your goals is a beneficial way to do your best. You are taking the initiative of supporting your future self. It is a constant reminder of the things you want to achieve with a task, project, or life. You also get to do the fun part and cross off the goal once you complete it! It’s all about figuring out where you are going all while prioritizing. Writing down your goals helps you stay motivated because you’ve got a plan in mind and that’s exciting. I know this is like beating a dead horse but it’s worth it!

Just Start

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Often this is the hardest part. Once we get started we start getting excited. It’s different for everyone but you’ll never achieve anything in life if you can’t get started. There is also nothing wrong with starting small. Sometimes the small things are what motivate us to do the bigger things. So quit thinking and start doing.

Build Habits

“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”   ― Jim Rohn

Develop yourself personally. See my Morning Routine. When you start to see success in your own life by utilizing habits you begin to put this in place in your work life. Willpower is a limited resource, so once you implement something that becomes habit, it becomes natural. When we start with small habits they make us more productive.

Check out The Compound Effect book. It’s all about building upon habits and decisions in your life to achieve success.

Surround Yourself with Hard Working People

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” ― Jim Rohn

The quote above has been my mantra since the beginning of this year. It make so much sense that we become who we spend time with. Try reaching out to someone you admire and want to achieve their level of success. There has to be someone that lives near you that has attained the kind of success you want. You can also reach out by cold emailing and utilizing twitter. I have also heard a lot of great things about conferences. They are a great place to meet up and hangout with people who have similar interests as you.

Give Yourself Positive Reinforcement

Focus on your skills and talents as much as you can. There isn’t any reason to dwell or worry about all the bad things that could happen. Try and build self esteem by reminding yourself about your good qualities. Some people might think of this as being selfish but I couldn’t disagree more. Why should we always put ourselves down and think the worst? We deserve better. You wouldn’t be where you are today without the skills you’ve learned and aquired. Try waking up tomorrow morning with a smile on your face. Talk out loud about the positive things in your life. Let these serve as constant reminders everyday. It could be as simple as saying ‘I’m going to be the first one to complete this 5K on Friday.’ The cool thing about this is that you may find yourself accomplishing these tasks that you reaffirm yourself of everyday.

Stop Making Excuses

This is self explanatory. Shut your brain up. Need I say more?

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